31 October 2007

Halloween and M&M

You know they say after a loved one dies that the first holidays without them are the hardest. Most would think Christmas but not Halloween. But, I am finding this Halloween very hard without Em around.

You see my sister LOVED Halloween -- she loved the candy -- did I say she loved the candy ? That is one of the reasons why her nickname was M&M.

And all the dressing up. Once she was a Mom she loved getting Ashleigh and Noah dressed up.

I can remember all the crazy customs we dressed up as kids. We would walk down to "new neighbors" house and she would be dressed as a crazy witch and give us tons of candy. My mom would make candy apples, that we loved, and popcorn balls. Emily, Philip and I would go out with my Aunt Kathy along with Brad, Chad and Valerie. What fun we had !

I know this sounds silly but when I was home in Brookhaven I went by her grave and decorated with Halloween flowers with little spiders. Then I left her some Jolly Ranchers and a Blow Pop. Some of her favorites. :)

Happy Halloween to all and be safe -- And Em -- Happy Halloween to you too ! Miss you !

23 October 2007

The furry creatures of Reston....


This photo taken by Adam in our backyard (which is also the woods) is dedicated to Mike. See Mike --Katy and Gabe aren't the only ones gathering acorns. :)

19 October 2007

Wrapping up the week.....

Wow ! It's Friday all ready. It has been a week since I was in Brookhaven for my 20-year-reunion. A fun time was had by all and it was great to catch up with friends from 20 years ago. Our class decided to have a 25-year so I guess we will all see each other again in 2013.

I got to go to the Mississippi School for the Arts while I was there. I wish we had something that awesome when I was a growing up there. The darkroom is to die for --it is HUGE ! Here is a photo below of the campus and the view of Brookhaven from the 6th floor dorms.

While I was in Mississippi I got to go through some of Emily's things. It's funny because Emily and I growing up traded clothes all the time.So, it felt only right that I kept a few of her favorite pieces of clothing. I don't know if I will wear them but it makes me feel good to know they are in my closet.

I was telling my mom about a story from high school and she said"you never told me that" and I told her there were many things I probably didn't tell her back then because Em and I always kept each others secrets.

The weirdest thing happened on the way back to Washington and mad me think that Emily is watching out for us. After take off and we were above the clouds I look down out of the window of the plane and saw the strangest thing. In the clouds was a shadow of the plane....but around the shadow there was a bright rainbow that circled all the way around the plane. See the photo below. I know it might sound silly but part of me thought that it might be Em watching out for me and saying hi ! I have flown many, many times and have never seen that. Ok..maybe I am nuts but I do have faith that God and his angles touch us sometimes in unexpected ways.

In other good news -- Mike and many others survived the latest rounds of AOL layoffs this week - yea ! Sad news is that 11 people that he did work with in photo did get let go. His schedule is changing he is going more to a day shift during the week which I am happy about. Now maybe I will be less of a single mom and be able to workout every once in awhile.

But, there were some of didn't get laid off that actually complained when they had to switch departments or shifts. Which leads me to the Friday story -- people need to be grateful for all things in life. ;)

MY FRIDAY STORY

Rain Washed
Author Unknown

A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in Target. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the Target.

We waited, some patiently, others irritated because nature messed up their hurried day. I am always mesmerized by rainfall. I got lost in the sound and sight of the heavens washing away the dirt and dust of the world. Memories of running, splashing so carefree as a child came pouring in as a welcome reprieve from the worries of my day.

The little voice was so sweet as it broke the hypnotic trance we were all caught in, "Mom, let's run through the rain," she said. "What?" Mom asked.

"Let's run through the rain!" She repeated.

"No, honey. We'll wait until it slows down a bit," Mom replied.

This young child waited about another minute and repeated, "Mom, let's run through the rain."

"We'll get soaked if we do," Mom said.

"No, we won't, Mom. That's not what you said this morning," the young girl said as she tugged at her Mom's arm.

"This morning? When did I say we could run through the rain and not get wet?"

"Don't you remember? When you were talking to Daddy about his cancer, you said, 'If God can get us through this, he can get us through anything!'"

The entire crowd stopped dead silent. I swear you couldn't hear anything but the rain. We all stood silently. No one came or left in the next few minutes. Mom paused and thought for a moment about what she would say. Now some would laugh it off and scold her for being silly. Some might even ignore what was said. But this was a moment of affirmation in a young child's life. A time when innocent trust can be nurtured so that it will bloom into faith.

"Honey, you are absolutely right. Let's run through the rain. If God let's us get wet, well maybe we just needed washing," Mom said.

Then off they ran. We all stood watching, smiling and laughing as they darted past the cars and yes, through the puddles. They held their shopping bags over their heads just in case. They got soaked. But they were followed by a few who screamed and laughed like children all the way to their cars.

And yes, I did. I ran. I got wet. I needed washing.

Circumstances or people can take away your material possessions, they can take away your money, and they can take away your health. But no one can ever take away your precious memories... So, don't forget to make time and take opportunities to make memories everyday. To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under heaven.

I hope you still take the time to run through the rain.

09 October 2007

Gabe's got braces

Well, now I have put my third child into braces. :) Adam, Bri (who still has them) and now Gabe. Katy will be next in about another year or two. Hopefully Gabe will be out of his by the time Katy gets hers on. Total in all after they are all done.....about $20,000 before insurance.

Gabe is really sore today so he gets to stay home and eat soup and shakes.

Here are Gabe's before and after photos.......

Before

After

04 October 2007

10 Ten Things I Miss About High School

OK…we have all been there; high school was never easy on any of us. I get to go back in time next weekend to my Brookhaven High School 20th Reunion – Go Panthers!! It got me to thinking ...what I really miss about high school compared to being an adult. Hope you enjoy….and feel free to add yours to the comments.


10 Ten Things I Miss About High School

10.) Pep Rallies – Where else can you go and yell at other people as loud as you want and be rewarded with a spirit stick? This just does not happen in the real world unless you work for Wal-Mart.

9.) Learning for Free - You got to learn lots of cool stuff and you didn’t have to pay for it. Yes, at the time you though school sucked. But, if I want to take German or learn to play the flute now they charge me big bucks – unless…. I steal my kid’s textbooks. But, what fun is that – no passing notes.

8.) The Drama – and I don’t mean the School Play -- Being in high school is better than any soap opera – you are livin’ it up in drama. Who did what to who where? Maybe that is why I went into journalism. Drama as an adult will usually just get you fired or on You Tube.

7.) The Glory Days of Summer – When the only care you had in the world is laying out in the sun, tubing the Bogue Chitto River and hanging out with your friends. The only thing you worried about was when Top Gun was going to show at the local movies. Summer now are just like any other day – I work, take kids to summer camp, go to sleep and do it all over again.

6.) Your Friends – Everyday was Girls Night Out -- Remember when your friends were your whole life – you talked to them for hours on the phone, spent days and days doing fun stuff together. Remember slam books? I guess that is My Space now. These days I am lucky I get to do a pedicure with a friend once every six months.

5.) Dancing – We danced in high school – slow dancing, fast dancing – after football games, in the spring, just for the hell of it – I mean the 80’s was the best time for music. :) The last time I danced…my wedding. One song- two minutes…tops!

4.) Driving for Fun – I didn’t care that my car was a yellow station wagon – I had wheels and gas was 99 cents. I could cruise Brookway Blvd. for hours with my friends and find simple pleasure in that. Now, I hate driving – the traffic, the auguring kids in the backseat, $3 for gas – kind of takes the fun out of it.

3.) No Internet, No Cell Phones, No Xbox 360 – I love my technology but there was life before IM and Google. Sometime it was nice not being able to be found. And, I thought Atari and Pac Man were the greatest inventions ever. Now my kids don’t even have to go to the library or use an encyclopedia – it is all there with the touch of mouse. And if I want to find them -- GPS on those cell phones. :)

2.) No Bills! – I mean that what we had parents for – they paid for everything – gas, clothes, a field trip to D.C. – that was the life – we just didn’t know it then. Any money back then I made all was spent on me, me, me. Now, I have to be all responsible and stuff. :)

1.) Making Out - Kissing is one of life's most innocent guilty pleasures – who does not remember playing Seven Minutes in Heaven and Spin the Bottle. (And don’t worry parents of mine– I was a “good girl” in high school) Back then, I had time to have a make-out session - no one knocked on the door or yelled Mom. Now, I cannot remember the last time had a French kiss lasting longer than 3 seconds. I mean sex is great but don’t you ever miss the fun in making out in a dark closet somewhere? :)